Monday, March 8, 2021
Flipping It ... Remembering God's Power to Change Lives and Situations
Monday, February 15, 2021
"Throwing Shade"
Days have gotten extremely hot here in Ethiopia. The sun has increased it's intensity.
Several times ... I've been stuck in traffic with the sun blazing down and I can feel myself getting burned as I sit and smolder.
And it's had me longing for SHADE ... a place in the coolness.
My first several years living in Ethiopia, I loved the year round fall like temperatures and the months and months of sun. I would walk everywhere and sit outside to grade papers on rooftops. I loved seeing the hot peppers roasting on the ground and the big birds flying in the pretty blue skies.
Many people here carry umbrellas to provide shade from the sun, and for a long time... I always found this humorous.
But the sun's intensity is not comfortable like before... so the shade now is needed and desired by many, EVEN ME.
And this kind of shade is GOOD.
But there's also "BAD" shade.
I always thought the phrase "throwing shade" sounded funny... but unfortunately it's not funny... when "shade" is thrown on you.
"Throwing shade" means to "disrespect or ridicule something or someone, verbally or non-verbally." The talk or action is shady. It can be gossip or trash talking someone.
Has anyone ever "thrown shade" on you? How did you respond?
I think as you get older in life, you realize, shade will be thrown on you at some point. It's just the nature of humanity. Also if you're a follower of Jesus, we're actually told to expect it.
Don't be surprised at the fiery trials you are going through as if something strange were happening to you. Instead, be very glad- for these trials make you partners with Christ in His suffering (1 Peter 4:12-13)
"I am sending you out like a sheep among wolves... Be on your guard... the student is not above his Master...if they talked about me they will about you too..." (Matthew 10: 16-17; 24-25).
Yet when shade is thrown, even if you're told to expect it, it can feel like a knife in the back. Anger and hurt can grow. Your integrity feels under siege. You want to get offended. You want to hit back. You want to defend yourself. Yet, it's so important in these moments ... to get alone with God so He gives you perspective.
In the Bible, Jesus is our best example of someone who had shade thrown on Him. He was unjustly accused and questioned and condemned. Yet, He sought His Father's Will and perspective, though all of heaven's armies were at His disposal to refute people's doubt and accusations. Yet, He showed restraint and silence...
When the leading priests and elders made their accusations against Him, Jesus remained silent (Matthew 27:12)
When Jesus was accused, He gave no answer (Matthew 26:63).
Jesus did what I believe we are also to do when accused...we are to follow God's leading. And if none is given, silence is best.
God helped Jesus respond the right way! He can do the same for us.
I think we have to think about ...WHY do people "throw shade" on others? Why do we?
There are several possibilities..
It could be a lack of understanding; maybe you've been hurt; maybe you feel insecure; maybe it's pride.
There are many many reasons for someone to throw shade. We are tempted to all the time if we admit it. We tend to speak before thinking and get emotional.
Yet Jesus didn't take offense to the actions against Him but actually offered people compassion and grace, even praying for them!
"Father forgive them, they know not what they do." (Luke 23:34)
Our humanity will respond aggressively and defensively when we are wronged. We can easily internalize offense until it poisons us. But God can help us respond as Jesus did.
First -we have to keep in God's presence. To be in this shade and rest ... brings identity and peace and joy and hope and love for others. God offers us refuge in Him and good shade. When people accuse, we are at peace and rest in the shadow of God....
In the shadow of your wings, I will take refuge Psalm 36:7
He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty (Psalm 91:1)
You have been a shade from the heat (Isaiah 24:4-5)
In the day of trouble, He will keep me safe in His dwelling (Psalm 27:5)
The Lord is your protector, He is there to shade you (Psalm 121:5)
But even with that protection, we can expect "hits" to come and "shade" to be tossed towards us.
But at these times, we don't have to be surprised. We can be ready and respond the right way.
The Bible tells us how...
Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Always consider others as better than yourself. (Philippians 2:3)
Get rid of all bitterness, anger and rage, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ, God forgave you. (Ephesians 4:31-32).
The Son of Man came not to be served, but to serve, and to give His life as a ransom for many (Matthew 20:28).
Every careless word you speak, you will be held accountable for (Matthew 12:36).
Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen (Ephesians 4:29).
Your words can bring life or death (Proverbs 18:21).
Keep a clear conscience, so that those who slander you may be put to shame by your good behavior in Christ (1 Peter 3:16).
As we continue to live and work where God places us...may we stay in the "shade" and "shelter" of God.
When bad "shade" is thrown on us, may we rest under the shadow of God in silence and let Him give us right perspective and right action. The world is watching.
Onward!
Praises and Prayer Requests
-It's been an honestly rough reentry back into Ethiopia. My work changed up a bit unexpectedly which brought stress. I'll share more soon. My work permit - residence visa was a huge challenge... but it should finish this week. I'm so thankful for the chance to continue to live here and work here and serve in whatever way God sets up. Not my will, but His be done!
-Prayers needed for the way ahead as my new work becomes more clear and that I'll be right where God wants me to be!
-Big praise for good health for me and my family in USA! May God continue to keep us safe.
How can pray for you?
When "bad shade" is thrown at us, may we respond well and love others as we are loved!
Life is a gift and God can use us where we are to shine for Him!
Monday, January 18, 2021
Time to Rise ... 2021
It seems like everyone needs lifted after a year like 2020.
Everyone took a hit. We were knocked down. An unprecedented year in the world when life as we knew it altered.
Coronavirus ended up invading every country and took peoples' lives swiftly. It caused lockdowns, fear, economies to falter, and government leaders to struggle.
Masks were put on. Hand sanitizer was applied. Businesses and schools were shut down.
We were told to get down and stay down. To not go out unless absolutely necessary. God have mercy!
While we were waiting and watching and staying in and staying down... other hits came as they always do in life.
Sickness, fatigue, stress. Other crazy situations came out of nowhere in many places. Natural disasters, fighting, protests, crashes.
Our down position became lower and we felt squashed and paralyzed. Unable to move. Was this the beginning of the end?
We needed and longed for relief. A hand up, a hand out, something to give, something to break ... so life could be more normal like it was before.
Here in Ethiopia, we were hit like everyone else. Coronavirus came slower here than in other places. But schools and businesses shut, masks came on, and people struggled.
We crouched down and waited for clearance to move, to open.
The down and closed position felt like an eternity.
In the walled in spaces, behind the masks and closed doors, worry and fear crept in. Would Covid get me? My family? Would I swiftly be taken without a goodbye? Satan likes to mess with us and make us forget that we don't have to be afraid.
But like everyone else on the planet, when I coughed or sneezed... I worried. Is this the end? Super hard.
Yet in these times... of worry and fear....I found deep prayer and deep sorrow and deep gratitude for the roads behind and for people I've met and loved and for the life I've already gotten to live. I remembered why were here and that our lives are a very delicate balance and we are ONLY sustained by God. I was humbled by realizing how quickly it could end and we could be with God.
Priorities and perspective and humility came in the quiet days and behind the masks... as I continued to hope for and look for the chance to get up again and live more fully and freely.
Finally in November, our school began to open and we started to move some. Though under strict protocol ... we were given permission to start groups of students and let them finish their school year in a "crash program." And it sincerely felt like a "crash." It started with our graduating class students.
Some of my favorite and best students of all time would finish. We told them ... you will need to get up, help each other up, and make a mad dash towards the finish line. I watched them do just that... they got up, and moved together towards their finish line...
We also had surprise hits here in Ethiopia, that actually ended up frightening people even more than Covid.... We had tribal fighting break out. Then civil war and a big humanitarian crisis loomed in our north (it's still not resolved).
But as I watched this GC (graduating class) group rise up, help each up, and push towards their finish line, I was moved and awed and inspired. I felt hopeful.
On Graduation day, Dec 19, 2020, 350 plus Hope University College students turned their tassels...and I felt deep emotion. They might not have thought it was an epic finish...but it was! I will be telling their stories the rest of my life of how this class persevered!!!!
What God has been reminding me during this past CRAZY YEAR...is of is our ability, as God's people, TO RISE.
And I believe in 2021- He wants us to get up!
How can we get up though after we've been so knocked down? Maybe you even still feel like you're being squashed under a shoe and rocks are rolling your way and there's no escape. Maybe you're still locked down. Your business and school is still closed... Your bank account is still empty... Your way is still blocked...
Yet, God has been saying to me.. and maybe He's saying the same for you... its time to GET UP!!
You have the ability to RISE! It's is in your DNA as a member of God's family. You can make it!!
But how again if you're still feeling squashed?
I believe to be able to get up ... you have to do two things: Remember and Repent...THEN Rise.
REMEMBER!
I think for us to get up from 2020.. we first to remember the power of our God- who He is, what He's done for us- and who we can be in Him!
We need to remember Jesus, the risen King we just celebrated, is IN us and WITH us. We can rise because He did! Heaven's champion, God's Son, Jesus conquered! Because He lives, so can we!
Satan wants us to think... our sin is too big; our past too dark; the economy too bleak; corona too contagious; depression too suffocating; loneliness too extreme; that our sorrow is too heavy; the diagnosis is too bad; our faith is too weak and our energy too low.
But God's Word says the complete opposite.
We can do all things through Christ who gives us strength! (Philippians 4:13)
Nothing is impossible for God! (Matthew 19:26)
No weapon formed against us shall prosper! (Isaiah 54:17)
He will finish what He started in us! (Philippians 1:6)
We are more than conquerors through Him who loves us! (Romans 8:37)
He wants us to remember HIM and not forget Him and to keep our eyes on Him!
We also need to...
REPENT!
God wants us to learn in the storms and in the valleys. So easily we lose our way and we build our lives on things that don't matter.
Where has your life gotten off track? How is your faith in God now? Your trust?
Who or what are you living for? Is God at your center?
Repent! Ask God to wash you , renew you, transform you, ground you, center you, build your life on Him and for Him... He promises to restore you ... and refresh you!
When we humbly come to Him with every struggle and fear and pain we have... He can carry it all and can heal it all!
then..
RISE!
Get up! It's time. You might not have the vaccine in your arm, but you do have Jesus in your heart. You may have a mask on... but you can live and love and shine His light and share His truth! Rise up!
Your story is NOT DONE! God has new chapters to write with your life and mine!
May we allow God to breathe His life and His hope, joy, peace, truth and strength into us in the new year!
May this year 2021, be EPIC, for God's glory, not our own! May we represent a people who are not crushed but a people who rise and become better by the struggles we pass through! If you see the Bible... this is already our story!
We are pressed, but not crushed..., struck down, but not destroyed... (2 Corinthians 4:8)
We are not of those who shrink back and are destroyed, but those who believe and are saved! (Hebrews 10:39)
Praying this for us all!
PRAISES / PRAYER REQUESTS
Hope University College started and is now finishing the school year with its 2000 plus students. The class of 2020 finished and graduated on Dec 19th. I'm so very thankful and so proud of these 350 graduates who persevered. I will never forget them! Please pray for these students as they now seek work. Also for all students as we finish and transition into a new school year this week!
I'm back to work after quarantining and another negative Covid test result. Please pray that I can help the school finish this "crash program" and wrap it up, then start a new school year in January.
Big prayer is needed for my work permit and new residence visa (this week) as I change from being under ETC to Hope University as their Student Dean.
I was so happy to see one of my best former students, Dagi, get married last week. It's amazing to me that God gives us global family and I'm so thankful God allows us to go through the good and bad of it all together. Congrats and best wishes to Dagi and Samri!
Please let me know how I can pray for you in the new year!
Let's RISE up and be all God wants us to be! It's time!!!
Blessings to Each of You in 2021!


















































